Definitely Wiser (i think! :D)

It has been a custom which  i have set to write something in and around my birthday. NO it does not mean i am self obsessed (my detractors be warned :D) I am just the kind who likes birthdays.There are 2 kinds of people in the world, the first which includes yours truly is the kind who believes in celebrating birthdays, however old you become.How does it matter if u are 2yrs,6yrs,26yrs or 62 yrs?! Your birthday is and always will beYOUR birthday, even if no one else is happy about it, you should be celebrating the blessings you have with all pomp and glamour (doesn't that make an for excellent excuse for cutting cakes and getting gifts? :P)Not to forget, is the second kind which includes yours truly's TRULY(Duh' Sam u fools :P, my husband, for the even slower ones :D)who doesnt seem to want to make any deal out of his birthdays :O. But i can not obviously let that be, i do my part in doing something (it is never upto what i want it to be like, but he is like 3000miles away so  it puts a damper on my efforts!)

Any way one more birthday has gone by(yes this time around also it was special :D) i think me getting married has only made more people have to do something about my birthday as i am like a spoilt child that way :D ( But only that way, otherwise i will have at least a few confirming that i am anything but spoilt :D)
I am older, hopefully wiser,definitely married, and hoping to be better :-)

Life as it goes by makes you realize how lucky you are, i have wonderful parents who have made me who i am today (not that i am someone great :P but it could have been so much worse :P) i had a brother who treated me exactly like how younger sisters should be, i got lucky in the bestest of friends who have become like the sisters i never had (girls, my life wouldn't be the same without you people in it),i have been lucky to be loved and obviously still be loved ( Sam, dear u have no choice :P) a new set of parents who have made me their daughter and another brother for the one i couldn't appreciate enough for all of what he was.

Yeah birthdays make me sentimental and emotional (not that other occasions dont but birthdays are all about me :D)There s always a first in my birthdays,this one was the first since i got hitched, God knows what next year's first would be, hopefully it would the first since i passed my post graduate theory exams :D (if wishful thinking would pass me next year, i surely would :D)

They say when life gives you lemons,make lemonade BUT it has always given me lemonade so should i be making "my pink lady" or "purple rain" with it?? :D
PS: Sorry sangi for stealing your pic :D

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