To long frienships..


I am 23 and ¾ th yrs old. U would think I am too young to know some one for 14 yrs but apparently not!Friendships you make when you are ten are not suppsed to last till you are 24,nobody would fault you for losing touch or not having the same depth as before.But I can confidently say I have known N for 14 yrs with the same depth of friendship as we shared when we were ten. Anybody  who knows us would say we are as different as friends go,for two people who really only studied together for 2 yrs and that too when we were 10 and 11yrs, we have stuck it out. We have seen so much of each others life it would be a sin if we lose touch after these long 14 yrs and believe me I don’t think we will!Its not like we were in the same town while in college and hence it was easy or anything like that. She was in kerala I was in manipal,she is in blore am in kerala.scenes have changed people have changed but fate has kept us close.i believe there is always a situation in your life when the presence of only a particular person in your life can make you move on.I am sure when need be,if it ever comes,she ll be there if I want her to be there for me.
This post is not supposed to be about how I have been lucky in friendship,well I am not sure about  what this post is supposed to be about, but today I realised 14yrs is not as long as it seems. I say out loud 14yrs and it seems like a life time but I remember it as yesterday being the new girl in school out to make friends.Anyhow  anyone who says friendships are hard to maintain when you are far apart is saying the truth. I have had countless number of friends in school and more recently in college but most friendships seem to fade away with time.Its not because we don’t wanna be friends anymore, its not even because we are too busy, I haven pin pointed on why some friendships get stronger while some blend into your memories-good memories.

On a more larger philosophical note,why do we have all these friends? Anyway, one day (not too soon hopefully) we fade away into nothingness and all that remains of us are a few memories in some hearts. I guess all we can do with whatever life we end up, is to make sure we have people around us who genuinely care for our annoying overbearing true selves we hide inside those cheerful charming smiles.

Happy birthday N.may you have many more happy ones.love you

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